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charlz_lynni'm looking at the OHSU sperm bank website, and it's hitting me for the first time that i'm going to have to be judged in order to get the sperm.
it's causing me to rethink some things.
shit shit shit.
this is such a huge decision.
some options i have:
---order it from a more queer-friendly, single-mom-friendly, working-class-friendly bank. they would have to ship it. and by ship i mean $hip. I'm wondering if the working-class-friendly sperm bank exists... but i know there are banks that aren't heterosexist.
---craigslist. this option would mean choosing a guy (interviews!). getting him tested. possibly paying him. and fucking him as many times as it takes. a lot of risk here, but it would cost less, and be so much less whitemaninwhitesuit action. the thing is i have no legal protection in this case, and someone else's emotions to deal with.
---try OHSU anyway, and possibly blow some money on the consultations and whatnot in order to be turned down.
---i honestly don't know what else.
i'm going to go put an ad on CL just to see
xo
it's causing me to rethink some things.
shit shit shit.
this is such a huge decision.
some options i have:
---order it from a more queer-friendly, single-mom-friendly, working-class-friendly bank. they would have to ship it. and by ship i mean $hip. I'm wondering if the working-class-friendly sperm bank exists... but i know there are banks that aren't heterosexist.
---craigslist. this option would mean choosing a guy (interviews!). getting him tested. possibly paying him. and fucking him as many times as it takes. a lot of risk here, but it would cost less, and be so much less whitemaninwhitesuit action. the thing is i have no legal protection in this case, and someone else's emotions to deal with.
---try OHSU anyway, and possibly blow some money on the consultations and whatnot in order to be turned down.
---i honestly don't know what else.
i'm going to go put an ad on CL just to see
xo
