You're not triggering me at all. It's funny you ask, actually, because I'm planning on moving here in June.
I think that the person can't be the only thing to move for when moving for a relationship. It's totally scary, but if the other person is the only thing you'll have in your new place it seems too risky to me. I feel like I have more resources out here -- much more than where I live right now. It's a hard balance.
How do you feel about it? Are you thinking of moving? To where?
I'm trying to think of people who modeled this positively and I am coming up with a few but don't know for sure if I have their facts straight. M and M, who I used to live with in pdx, for sure. But who else??
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Date: 2009-01-21 10:30 pm (UTC)I think that the person can't be the only thing to move for when moving for a relationship. It's totally scary, but if the other person is the only thing you'll have in your new place it seems too risky to me. I feel like I have more resources out here -- much more than where I live right now. It's a hard balance.
How do you feel about it? Are you thinking of moving? To where?
I'm trying to think of people who modeled this positively and I am coming up with a few but don't know for sure if I have their facts straight. M and M, who I used to live with in pdx, for sure. But who else??
xo