it makes me sad that you say you don't have a lot of really deep connections with people. perhaps it's selfish of me, but i have a deep connection with you.

and...

i know you pretty independent of knowing yr mom. i forget you ladies know each other. i know it's a big deal, but it's also an opportunity for you...

every year that place is big and scary. you'll be just fine. you are the toughest lady i know (and i know some mf tough ladies).